Lessons I learned from three failed friendships

When you are in high school often times you think the people you hang out with every day are going to be your life-long friends. Unfortunately, that is not always the case and most of the people you hang out with in high school you will never see again after you graduate. From my high … Continue reading Lessons I learned from three failed friendships


When your friends don’t believe your disability exists

My last friendship did not end well because one of my friends did not understand my migraines and she thought they could be easily treated through medication.  Instead of asking me for more information about my disability she assumed Hydrocephalus wasn't a thing and called me psycho and accused me of making up a disability … Continue reading When your friends don’t believe your disability exists

Follow me on social media!

Blogging isn't as easy as it used to be where you were able to write a couple of posts and reach a relatively large audience. Now blogging is a little bit more involved and may take a little bit more effort because it is like running a business! In order for bloggers to get noticed, … Continue reading Follow me on social media!

Four things I do when I am not blogging

Everyone needs a break from time to time! Building a blog takes time and consistency but doing it 24/7 won't necessarily build your blog faster but may actually do the opposite. Taking a few short breaks every now and then can be really beneficial and help you recharge come up with new ideas if you're … Continue reading Four things I do when I am not blogging

How to help a friend who is suffering from depression

When you are disabled it is not uncommon to suffer from depression but unfortunately, not everyone can afford therapy and sometimes we just have to learn how to cope with our depression. When your friends suffer from depression it can hard to watch because you want to help but you may not know how or … Continue reading How to help a friend who is suffering from depression

What every girl really wants

Whether you are celebrating a special occasion or it's your girlfriends birthday or anniversary you want to be sure you find them the perfect gift that shows your love for them.  Finding the perfect gift is a lot easier said than done because sometimes the traditional gifts like a box of chocolates may seem like … Continue reading What every girl really wants

How do you support a blogger?

Is reading a bloggers post enough to get them noticed? Reading posts helps bloggers increase their engagement but unfortunately it is not enough for them to get noticed by larger brands. Smaller bloggers have a particularly hard time with this so if you want to help here are a few simple things you can do. … Continue reading How do you support a blogger?

Dating with a disability: What does the future hold?

Conversations about the future are a feature of any budding relationship. They’re the best way to tell if you’re both on the same page. They’re also a fantastic judge of whether things could work out in the long-term. Still, talking about those ‘big questions’ can be tough. Most of us worry about coming across as … Continue reading Dating with a disability: What does the future hold?

Ten-year friendiversary

The pi classroom back in high school was truly a horrible experience but one I could not avoid. Since I can do a lot of things on my own getting help from someone was like pulling teeth. Often times I refer high school as the "years of hell" because there are no good memories about … Continue reading Ten-year friendiversary

Qualities of good abled friends

One of my readers approached me and said "hey Sarah I loved your tips on how to move on when a long-lasting friendship falls apart" could you do something on qualities of good abled friends? That got me thinking what a great idea because although I have had a few friendships not work out I … Continue reading Qualities of good abled friends

Blog milestone: 5000 pageviews!

We did it! We hit 5000 page views in my first year of blogging which I didn't think was ever going to happen. Getting views on your blog is hard and if you run a blog you understand that. But in my experience gaining confidence in my writing has been much harder. So everyone who … Continue reading Blog milestone: 5000 pageviews!

You’re invited: Blog party

I will be hosting my first blog party on Tuesday, June 5th and if you blog about disability or chronic illness you're invited! If you work very hard on your blog and aren't getting as many views as you would like or have been trying to get more followers this is the perfect opportunity! What do … Continue reading You’re invited: Blog party